Seeing things the way they truly are is sometimes is hard. We often see though eyes of our emotions and filter our incoming information though the lenses of what is in front of us right now.
Try to look at things as they truly are, see the realness outside of your current mental state. Be the observer. For example, when we are emotionally drained, everything seems harder to manage and our thoughts can run away into that dark place. Like walking though cement, it is our current perspective. Or, when we are so full of love and life, everything smells and tastes like an amazing new experience. Everything is heightened and uplifting rather and our perspective is positive.
One of the keys to keeping ourselves from sinking deep into our own negative emotional perspective is to fall in love with what is real. Don’t fall in love with potential. If you feel in your gut, your instincts, your intuition that something isn’t right…believe it. Trust it. We often give into the thought of, they will change... my job will get better... or I shouldn’t buy this but I’ll lose enough weight to fit into this! Be real, see things as they are and find acceptance in it. Save yourself the disappointment later.
Fall in love with real and stay away from potential.